Everyday shooting with your iPhone {May 2015}

  I've heard people say "I'm going to put down the camera and enjoy my kids" which never made sense to me until recently.  I was at the park, and had just been running around taking pictures of the kids splashing in the fountain.  A lady came up next to me, smiling at her 3 gorgeous kids running around having the time of their lives in the water.  She naturally wanted a picture to remember the moment, I commend her for that, but what she captured was the opposite of the moment.  She stopped them from running, made them line up in front of the water, hold hands and smile.  For older kids this may not have been a big deal, but it made me ache to see her trying so hard with "look at mommy! SMILE!"  The kids weren't feeling it, and the picture in no way represented the fun they were having.  I wasn't about to involve myself, I didn't know her and she may love her pictures.  I guess it triggered me to share a few tips on how I photograph our daily life.  Which is just as important as the big events ; ) Just a few years ago, I remember carrying the big guns around on every vacation, event, and random things around the house.  My iPhone has totally replaced photographing 'everyday' little things that are so important to capture.  Apple has brought a whole different level to pictures for me, being able to whip out my phone and beautifully take a picture in 2 seconds flat.  I'm able to catch so much more with out disrupting life... Priceless.  A friend actually called me a stealth shooter, haha!  I send pictures every time I leave her house and she doesn't notice me taking them. ; )  Hopefully these tips will help your pictures bring back more emotion than just a 'we were here' moment.

#1.  Keep the phone on silent.  There's nothing like a big "cha-ching!" to ruin a moment and completely distract someone or a child from what they are doing.  Cue for a fake smile for adults surprisingly as much as kids.

#2.  Use the volume button for the shutter.  I don't think most people are aware of this, but on your iPhone you can use the up or down volume buttons on the side to take a picture.  You can more securely hold the phone this way, and know your finger is on the button without having to look at it.

#3.   Don't stare at the phone.  The whole point of "putting down the camera to enjoy my kids" is simply because you aren't engaged with them, am I right?  So get engaged!  I try not to put the camera between me and what's going on if I can help it.  I hold it to the side, or whatever needed, and being present with them makes all the difference in the world.  For the moment itself, the memory, and the genuine expression you receive... there's nothing like it.  Enjoy the moment with them, and for heavens sake, don't ask them to look at the camera and say cheese!

#4.   Overshoot always, delete later.  Yes, my husband laughs at how I can take thousands of pictures in a matter of weeks, but doing this is less stressful than trying to stage a moment.  Take a few extra at the cost of not missing that expression.

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 It's funny how the things your kids remember are mostly in pictures.  Really.  Maybe I don't have a good memory, but if my mom where to mention a beach trip when I was 5, I would remember my blue bathing suit and my brother napping on the balcony.  Simply because those are pictures from that trip we still have.  It's a harsh reality, but what your child is doing right now might never be thought of again.  Go take pictures of her riding on her scooter in the driveway, or her favorite plate of blue pancakes, can you imagine how valuable those images will be to her 20 years from now?  Pictures can trigger memories, and for kids, help them hold onto they're own memories much longer than if they never thought of a certain vacation again.  Homeschooling also reminds me of this, after all the kids can't remember history facts from telling them once, right?  We're able to let them relive that experience over and over again.  And that makes me smile : )

Now get to it. ; )


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Hawkes Family Cruise {January 10, 2015}

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What's our favorite way to vacation?  CRUUUUUISING!!!!!  Kristina and Troy wanted to cruise to celebrate their anniversary, and we were lucky enough to get invited along!  We attempted getting more Hawkes to come, but maybe we can coordinate again in a few years.  My mom and Dave came with us too!  We took the Carnival Sunshine for a 7 night Eastern Caribbean cruise.  The girls had sooo much fun!!!

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After the cruise, we spent the day at the Space Center- perfect ending to a perfect trip ; )

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New Priorities {May 11, 2015}

     Hi!  I'm fully aware of all the gaps I'm leaving in my children's memories by neglecting this blog, but today I found a new priority in recording them. Blogging has forever been a "spare time" activity for me, and therefore it NEVER happens. This afternoon my mom, sis-in-law Kristina and someone from church (yeah, church is new for me too, it's on my list to share) came over to work on family history. As we're going over websites and learning how to connect the dots, I felt totally overwhelmed. I realize the importance of having family records and also know that I just can't find the time to do it. Things like this remind me of the ever-waiting blog that I continue to neglect. Candy reminded me that family history is the here and now also, and recording things for our children is just as important. I know, it's something that I am all too aware of given all the pictures I take for that exact reason, but I just needed a reality check that blogging (which turn into our family yearbooks) is more than a "free time" activity. I need to make it more of a priority for my girls and future generations.

 photo 2015-03-03-8101-_zpsmlyjrou3.jpg  Last week, we had a women's conference at church that was wonderful and inspirational. One challenge I was given was to find 10 minutes a day, every single day, to do something for me. Well... blogging it will be. I came to the computer tonight and found this long lost draft of a post. Ha ha! So, I'm going to share a few recent pics of the girls and go ahead and post some thoughts from October of last year. Next on the agenda will be to best describe Scarlett and all her favorite things so she remembers her childhood. Ha ha!


October 20, 2014: 
I've tried writing over the last few months, and it feels ridiculously impossible to best sum up the last 6 months (which is a minimum of what's missing from this blog.) So then I just end up with nothing at all. Continuing to leave out memories for my girls that they so deserve to have. I have started picking up the real camera more, and we just bought a new video camera, but my iPhone and Instagram have been my way of updating others on pictures from our crazy life. So. I'm going to just start from today so I don't completely overload myself and meltdown, haha. Yesterday we had Reagan's 6th birthday party at our house, and it was great. She has been completely obsessed with Wild Kratts since this summer so we got her a creature power suit and had a Wild Kratt cake. With her number of friends growing, we decided just to have a painting party at our house with all our family (and Ivy) and then take cupcakes to school tomorrow on her birthday. Right now Nani is downstairs with the girls setting up the china cabinet she brought over yesterday. Reagan has been so excited about it, she wanted to move stuff in last night at the party instead of opening presents. She is my daughter. ; ) Here I go again, wanting to delete what I've written because it's such a tiny piece of our lives that it doesn't begin to express or describe our family at the moment. How about this... Love, time together, family, learning, teaching, pictures, fun & friends. That's what's important in our little bubble. It's hard to fit everything in, if only I didn't have to sleep! I really could use those extra 6 hours a day. I actually think... I might have lost myself to motherhood. I was forever changed when I was given these wonderful gifts, which have brought me more joy than anything ever could. I cannot imagine life without them, or even what having "free time" means. Haha! I am with the girls 24/7 unless I'm shooting. What's weird is when we have an afternoon apart I can feel they've gotten out of sorts when I get home. I really am the calming, steady, support they lean to and I swear know every mood before it hits. They have their share of arguments like any siblings, but they seem to overall do better with the steady routines and the predictability of having me around. I'm afraid my mind has begun to cloud over and even now, (with the rare time away form the girls) I'm still wondering about lunch, if they're arguing, are they listening, are they keeping food off the couch, are they being challenged, and they better not be on any screens. That has been a battle lately and they're so much happier when they only have a little TV time a day. I've decided to give up on the iPad altogether, it makes them ridiculously cranky. Every mother knows you have to be two steps ahead, so my mind is never to myself, even now! Don't get me wrong, I looove ever part of being a mother, but... I'll just say it's the hardest job in the WHOLE WORLD. No other job for me will ever amount to what I am doing right now. I wonder all the time if I'm doing enough, or handling things right. Was I too firm? But I don't want be a push-over.? Am I setting a good example, teaching them what's important in life? How much should I push her with school work? She's capable of so much, but I don't want to loose her love of learning. Balancing diets, appointments, handling customer calls and orders, running a business, opening a studio, paying bills, planning vacations... Okay I got carried away, but seriously. Then we have to keep a clean house! A mom's mind is in so many things all at one time. The multi-tasking abilities women have is incredible. I toss these thoughts all the time, and I despise the evenings I feel my patience wearing thin. Every night, after the girls are asleep and I finally get a shower, I think back at how I need to be more patient with them. I saw a video once of mothers being interviewed and asked to describe themselves as a parent. The majority did what I'm sadly doing, pointing out things they should do better and expressing doubt in they're decisions. Then the table flipped to interviewing the children about what they think of their moms. They were the sweetest, most adoring interviews that would make any mom feel like Superwoman. Oh how I hope that my girls grow up to be strong women and always know how much they are loved. Pete and I have devoted ourselves to each other and this family, to make the best life for them we know how. It's all we can do as parents! Try and love. Next I'll start working on a letter to both of the girls.

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